Friends
In a family, the expectaions from the parents and aspirations from kids are always too high. As kids, we used to expect all the luxury from the parents without understanding their limitations. When we grew up went to college, we thought of winning the whole world as soon as we finish the education. Later we got the professional degrees and it sound as if we are on top of the world. Then our real struggle started and this struggle is still going on since more than two decades. I believe it will go on for the life term. When we are fed up with our struggle or feel that we would not be able to achieve our goal we smartly move towards kids and aspire for the moon from them. We expect them to be the best in everything, most successful in the world and everything which we can dream of . We look towards them to fulfill our dreams along with their's and then the kids are put into pressure.
Is it right to aspire beyond a limit from the kids? Let them achieve their gols, why we should interefere? Why not we just support them and have faith in them? I am sure they would always perform better than us.
Is it their fault if we couldnot perform as per our wishes? Have not we dream a lot but could not put in the desired efforts?
Is it right to feel insecure even at the mid of the life, when we ourselves have sufficent time to achieve? Why not we continue to perform at our best? We should learn from politicians who never paas on their dereams and remain active much beyond the retirement age. God has given us sufficient time to achieve our goals.
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