Friends,

If you are stuck up in unpleasant situation, almost every one except very near or dear people will not believe in you come what may. They may on face agree but in the hindsight their opinion will be opposite to you. The situations come and go but it will teach you about the i) persons around you, ii) self-confidence and  most importantly iii) what not to do in future.

Unpleasant situations are always best teacher to show mirror and open the eyes. Those who have faith in themselves will succeed and learn the lessons. Such persons will achive new heights. However, some people may get scared and run away. In such case the learning gets waste and situation turns into pain. 

Hence in my opinion, Patience , faith and self confidence are key to handle any situation. Once you are out of the situation, self analysis, motivation and confidence will play a major role in deciding the direction.

My comeback to blogging

Friends, it has been long time since my last blogging. More than 3 years but there is no other way to exhale the thought from the mind including frustration. It has been a long story of fighting out with the system which frustrates may times. In fact last 3 years have changed my thoughts completely where I used to believe that any professional duties doing legally will be long lasting but the now I believe irrespective to your lawful duties there are many forced who can drag you to drain , blame you and spoil the hard earned reputation. All these things happen not by choice but chance. Once you are dragged into this you have to fight out alone till the end and make a comeback . Do we really plan for this ? Never ever but these are part and parcel of the life which need to be taken into account while doing your job. 

One important lesson I learned these days is whenever you enter into a situation and can’t see the light out of the tunnel, pack the situation, leave to god and move away. Nothing is static in this world not even Mother Earth. 

CP

Mental Slaveness

Friends, I wish to share with you my views on current situation of  " Mental Slaveness" . It is a situation where the mindset, thoughts, views, concepts of a person are changed remotely. 

Initially physical human interactions were only source of knowledge sharing which used to affect the thought process. Later the remote tools like print media, books etc became major source of thought process of human beings. Today, electronic media has surpassed all the other methods of thought process. Electronic media laced with lethal electronic gadgets rules the contents, informations, knowledge etc. Electronic gadgets were invented for the benefits of the humans but now these demons have taken away the peace and privacy . These gadgets are integral part of the electronic media who knows every thing about you and immensely affect your thought process. 

It is said that if a false thing is repeated 100 times,  we will start believing it. Most of the humans became slave of media who decides what we should watch, think and behave in life. This is a perfect situation of  "mental slaveness" of the humans . It changes your attitude, character, thoughts, opinion etc.

Last 8-9 months of pandemic has added fuel to the fire of this slaveness. There are lots of restriction on interactions and knowledge sharing which has given immense edge to the electronic media to build the clout. 

The mental slaveness may be a dangerous phenomenon which may affect the humans life adversely for Long period. It may be misused for radicalisation of masses and  change the thought process and mental state permanently for complete generation. It's wide reach and deep impact is lethal for the human beings. This may have irreparable damage to the human societies. 

If you ask me the solution to this than I concede, no idea. I can only suggest for lowering dependency on these gadgets, more and more knowledge sharing and more human interactions with open mindedness and humility. 

C P 

Tearing Social Fabric

 Technological advancement of last 3 decades have changed the life economically, socially and personally. We people of sixties have experienced the thick social fabric when family was full of Chachas, Taus, Dada, Dadi, Bua, mama, mausi and so on...it was the time when every elder had authority to scold or fire or abuse. And we would just bow our head as a respect. The joint families with large number of members were common with strong binding . Any marriage or function in a family was on priority and well attended. Things were quite simple and easy. Every responsibility was family responsibility . The situation stared deteriorating in eighties and escalated in nineties. Post 2000, technology took over the emotions , life styles, way of doing business , education, family structure and social responsibilities. In last 10-15 years, the families have shrunk almost every where, every responsibility is yours only , relations are shrinking- now bua or mausi have become rare and optional. Now social functions have become big challenges. We have become so possessive about the kids that no one can dare to scold them. Now getting annoyed means the end of relations for ever. Neither we care for others nor do others. Education and income have taken top priority slot than anything else including our nears and dears. Technology has virtually tore the social fabric in our society. Now we don’t cry if some one leaves us but we cry if some one comes to us. We have gone far away from our own culture and values. We feel happy to criticise others, their ancestors, down others to any extent. We are happier to see others in trouble. Now if we dont agree with others’ views, he is our enemy . We can not live with people of rival views. . No doubt technology has changed life for good, it has come with equal destruction too .

Technological development has damaged the social fabric badly. We have lot emotions, brotherhood, joint living and so on. Yeh kaha aa gaye hum log.

CP

 Friends

After long gap of almost twenty months, I am back to blogging. I wish it would be great solace. 

CP

Failure and success two sides of a coin

It is human nature to be happy and celebrate the success while cursing failure. Generally the ratio of failure and success is 10:90 meaning that number of failures are 9 times more than success . It may be lesser too like 05:95. If we recount failures and success of the life, we will notice that a successful person will be having success ratio of 05:95 or may be lesser . We get frustrated or depressed even if the success ratio is as high as 10:90. In fact, we expect success in every action which can't happen. 

What makes the successful person different from others is that they are happy with ratio of 05:95 but the volume of their efforts makes number if success higher. This mantra of increasing the efforts and taking more failures is known to every one but we don't take it when failures knocks us. Rather we curse the failure and get depressed instead of greeting failures . Success can not come alone it has to come with failures and hence despite poor ratio gives immense pleasure whenever we get success. If we getting failures and efforts are continue, believe me success is just very near and can come any time. 

The key yo improve the success ratio is only and only  one and that is more failures. Every failure takes you towards the success. People get frustrated when they continuously get failures and leave the efforts but one should not forget that if the cluster of failures is knocking down us, many success are approaching you if you are continuing the efforts. 

CP

Mental Slaveness

Friends, I wish to share with you my views on current situation of  " Mental Slaveness" . It is a situation where the mindset, thoughts, views, concepts of a person are changed remotely. 

Initially physical human interactions were only source of knowledge sharing which used to affect the thought process. Later the remote tools like print media, books etc became major source of thought process of human beings. Today, electronic media has surpassed all the other methods of thought process. Electronic media laced with lethal electronic gadgets rules the contents, informations, knowledge etc. Electronic gadgets were invented for the benefits of the humans but now these demons have taken away the peace and privacy . These gadgets are integral part of the electronic media who knows every thing about you and immensely affect your thought process. 

It is said that if a false thing is repeated 100 times,  we will start believing it. Most of the humans became slave of media who decides what we should watch, think and behave in life. This is a perfect situation of  "mental slaveness" of the humans . It changes your attitude, character, thoughts, opinion etc.

Last 8-9 months of pandemic has added fuel to the fire of this slaveness. There are lots of restriction on interactions and knowledge sharing which has given immense edge to the electronic media to build the clout. 

The mental slaveness may be a dangerous phenomenon which may affect the humans life adversely for Long period. It may be misused for radicalisation of masses and  change the thought process and mental state permanently for complete generation. It's wide reach and deep impact is lethal for the human beings. This may have irreparable damage to the human societies. 

If you ask me the solution to this than I concede, no idea. I can only suggest for lowering dependency on these gadgets, more and more knowledge sharing and more human interactions with open mindedness and humility. 

CP