Friends
I wish to share one typical topic with you. It can be called as "Social Responsibility". During the course of our upbringing from childhood to the last leg of life, we are covered by social fabric and governed by the cultures, social systems, sanskars etc.. This cover of social fabric is made of parents, brother, sisters, children and many more relatives. It protects us, guide us and develops our capability. It helps in achieving the goals and further develop the family and society. We have got particular responsibilities, attachments and interactions with particular relation. During the course of our life this fabric cover Many a times we try to leave this cover behind and try to torn out too. It widens with addition of new relations and also some times it strains due to mismatch of views and personal interests. We are equally responsible to damage this fabric. The strain in the fabric also leads to irresponsibility towards certain relations. I believe this irresponsibility turns into big mental burden during the course of time. When ever in any relation we become irresponsible It hurts you always every time every where.
Friends this often happens when we turn away from the parents or elder ones or some one we are very much attached may be due to our mistake or some others' mistakes or circumstances beyond our control . Also sometimes we build a relation, name it and take the responsibility to maintain and suddenly we feel helpless to take it forward. It all creates mental burden and lead us to a guilt feeling. I believe either we should not develop a relation or else should honour it with full respect. It is our responsibility to nurture and care the relation. This relation can be in any form be it a friend, brother, sister, teacher, partner, or whatever. I believe any irresponsibility towards such relation would lead to a great mental burden and may continue forever because we cant make any body responsible except our selves. The cost of honouring the relation is much less than avoiding or becoming irresponsible.
What you say?
cp
1 comment:
IT rather is a very touchy topic.Aisa laga jaise kisi ne dukhti rag pe haath rakh diya. 'Social responsibility 'itself is a bigword but bigger then it is to fulfil it.We have many relations around us n we r responsible for each n every relation be it anything. Today when u have talked about this i want toknow from every one including u tht what about those relations which we make during our course oflife. When we make any new relation ,be it a friend or a brother or any other relation do we fulfil it or r we committed toit. Making relations is very easy but when it comes to its commitment we step back when we face some problems, n then we start giving excuses which r ill logical. Before making any relation a person should think twice whether he / she would be able to honour it, be committed to it, if not one should not go ahead n make any relation, n live with the relations wht God has given us. All relations in this world has its purity, its limitations, i think everybody understands this n then goes ahead with the relationship. Ya i agree with u tht it does gives us mental stress as the relation we want is not nurtured according to our wish, or when it develops it is from both the sides but then due to some reasons it becomes one sided. N specially for the person who does not understand wht is his or her fault in developing the relation, tht person is not able to decide whether to carry forward the relation or not. But for tht person it is hard to leave tht relation when it is as pure as a brother n sister relation n does not want to be disloyal to it. So plz advice me on this part whether this relation should be nurtured or not. But on other hand it is not possible to loose such a relation as we r responsible n have tobe commited for it. Leaving it as lot of confusion n nothing very clear about it. But would add tht avoiding it is not the cure.
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