Friends

When ever any social issue is referred to us for help or solution, we treat such issue as normal, important or urgent. The solution/support is also extended accordingly. Although the person who seeks our support may consider us most important but our reaction to such issue would always depend on mainly three factors that would decide our reaction or action. These factors are i) The depth of the relationship who wants the support; ii) The seriousness of the issue ; and iii) The impact of the issue on us.

These factors change regularly and hence the grading of the issue too. Some times we don't take seriously a very big issue if it is related with some one of less importance to us where as many times even a small issue related to our closest relative makes us sensitive. Also many times we try ourselves to protect at the cost of others and avoid helping just because it may hurt our interests. Sometimes we pretend to take the issue as most important but actions always speak louder than the words , irrespective to whatever clarifications we give or get. The importance or the priority we assign to any issue depends on the above factors. Big problems remain unsolved if it is not in priority and even small issues are taken care with extreme importance if the factors mentioned above are making it important.

This is the truth of the life & society but we should not blame any one if nothing is happening because it is yet to fall in the priority .

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