Friends
Finally I am back to ahmedabad yesterday late night. Hitisha is now stationed at Pune and all her initial challenges are properly managed. I wish she touches new heights in her career. Almost about one month was full of tension and uncertainties but every thing resolved in one hour.
We grow and settle in life before marriage and then unsettle again after the kids come in this world. When they grow, the challenges from different sides also grow and we need to take care of them. At certain age the task of shaping the kids' career take front seat and all parents put in their best efforts in this direction. Results are always with the mercy of God but efforts can not be let off lightly.
When kids grow up and go out for higher education, suddenly a vacuum creates in life. At home no complaints from any sides, no demands, no fights but the issue changes. All these are replaced by their study, assignments, food, health, clothing, holidays and travelling plans. Suddenly we feel as if nothing vibrates at home. It happens generally when all the kids go out for study. Most commonly asked question is what would be the daily schedule now? In my view this is the another phase of life when we can enjoy a lot with spouse. More outings, own choice food, candle light dinners, more travelling for professional and social purposes and so on. Above all we can spare some time for study too which so far not available. Certainly in such situation life would be different where we would be missing a lot to kids and also try to fill the vacuum.
I hope we all pass through such phase and better enjoy this.
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