Frequency of posts has reduced substantially.One of the main reason may be fear of self. Fear of repeating the same topics, fear of posting bore topics and fear of creating impression of hypocrisy. But the fact is that I am blank these days about the topic on blog. some times many topics crop up in mind but immediately thereafter I feel these are of no interest to my friends. Most of the time I am lost in imagination, planning and thinking. Consultancy is more of planning and thinking. The services are invisible and so the product is. The advice, efforts, planning nothing is visible only the result in some other form is visible. and hence it happens often that when ever I start writing on the blog a phone call is sufficient to kill the writing process on blog. Travelling is another factor which though gives opportunity to read but not to write. Travelling also adversely affects the daily routine of exercises and walking. But this is life which needs balancing and should not be of complaints. There is no gain without pain but some times gain is negligible as compared to the pain. Pain is mental factor which can not be shown but felt only. In present socio culture system where the families are broken into 2X2 segments, this is going to increase further. The education has forced the kids to move away from the parents and better education further takes them to lucrative jobs which are mostly away from the parental locations. Once they settle there, the marriage, family every thing also settles there it self and it all takes away from the parents. I agree it is essential for better career and growth in life but one can not deny the pain it creates in life. Human beings mostly have to move always otherwise they would deteriorate in one location. This may not be true in case of business families but in case of middle class families it is very common. The process of getting away from the parents also affects the mind set and the marriage takes it further away. The locational and cultural differences occur in relationship and it becomes very tough task to keep balance. Thus the pain of studying hard, leaving the parents for higher study and doing job away from the parents give lot of gains in term of career, money and good life but this gain further generates the pain of balancing, pain of aloofness in life and loss of social identity. The cycle moves on and would continue to move for next unknown generations.
Meanwhile Nikita has moved back to Bangalore after completion of summer vacation and Hitisha is still waiting for her new academic session in media and communication in Pune.
CP
'Suck it up and just get on with it'; 'don't let bad things that happen to you stop you'; 'you are in control of your life."
Sunday, June 6, 2010
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As man grows in age n business, he becomes busy planning out the work n as u said everything is hindered due to this. There r many things in life which r to be planned n given importance to, but when we fail to cope up with all this we feel help less. Life goes on with its speed..days n nights n again a new day..coming with new challenges. We have to live like this throughout..we try to organise our selves but something or other crops up which disturbs the whole management.
I agree tht todays education..ones needs.. has taken us away from our near n dear ones..specially this is happening every where with kids n parents..One more reason is there where the girl seperates from her parents for the life long..the custom of our hindu culture after the marriage..it is very painful..but as it is the custom we have to follow it..yesterday was fathers day n i missed my dad a lot.. May he rests in peace with god.. I was just thinking why only the girl has to leave her parents n settle at a new place...with new people whom she hardly knows..n does not even know how would they treat her..just an hour of ceremony changes her whole life..new environment..new people..suddenly she has to grow up..change herself..with lots of responsibilities..has this been noticed..or appreciated..many a times it is not..it is just been told to her tht it is the custom n she has to follow it blindly against her wishes..I just wish n pray for all the females tht they get the best of wht they deserve n have the strength to face all the difficulties in their life..i hope they get the appreciation for their sacrifice n work...I dont here mean to offend men..they equally work hard for their family..n their work should also get recognition...Each of us works n struggles hard to get through this life peacefully n happily. May God bless all.
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