Friends
We as human beings have one face which is visible to the outside world. But behaviour wise we have multi faces. We advise so many good things to our friends, neighbours, clients, relatives, kids and all as if we are the best person on this earth. In fact the advise we give or commit to the society is different then how we would react if the same situation we are also dragged into. We pretend and advise to be open minded, honest, broad heart, cool, satisfied, confident and so on. Give lot of examples but do we follow the same advise? I don't think so. It is always easier said than done. One of my friend recently lost his son in accident. The saddest moment in life of every father is to carry the body of son on his shoulder for funeral. He had come from that and at home when he was crying like a child, every one was giving him advise to keep cool, have faith in god, think beyond the loss, care for rest of the family members and all. I understand, it is very easy to say some thing but most difficult to follow. In another incidence one of my known relative was being advised to have faith in husband, open minded, never suspicious and so on.. The same person when slightly dragged into such situation became the most vocal and tried to spoil the life of her all family members.
I am not the expert in behavioural science or human psychology and hence fail to understand the multi faces of we humans.
cp
2 comments:
1. LIFE IS MOSTLY NOT AS 2X2=4 (WHICH IS CONSIDERED LIKE THIS BY MOST PROFESSIONALS AND SO CALLED LOGISTIC THINKERS).
2. THIS IS A VERY COMPLEX FINE TUNING BETWEEN EXTERNAL BEHAVIOR AND INTERNAL THOUGHTS.
3. NO BODY CAN LIVE WITH A GUILT EVER. EVEN A RAPIST, DACOIT OR CHIEF HAS HIS OWN VALID REASONS FOR THEIR ACTS, STILL THEY DO NOT COMMIT THEIR ACTS IN OPEN.
Humans have the tendency of carrying dual personalities..in real they r something else n show something else to the world..why cant one be its own self..No one is in need of free advises..but we have it in so much quantity tht one is not able to carry it for them selves..so when he or she gets an oppurtunity..never misses it n tries to empty its sack. We as a human have failed to understand another human..we c the world as we want it..n if even a slightest change occurs we try to change it according to our circumstances, not thinking tht unknowingly we would be hurting someone or causing trouble for them. We all r good in advising..when it is our turn to follow the advise given to us..we abuse it saying tht is not comfortable for us..we ppl have become very selfish..just think of our selves..think for others n make life worthliving.
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