Friends
Many times I remember the quote by Shri Harivansh Rai Bachchan that "Mann ka ho to achha aur Na ho to aur bhi achha." I have just experienced this quote though in bitter taste. I was engaged in some investment proposal and me and my team had put in lot of money, time and efforts in this deal. At the last moment when things were going so well, it got in to big trouble and finally got failed. It was really a shocking incidence for us but ultimately the above quote came in mind and now we moving ahead of this. It seems that the soft behaviour, humbleness, faith and positive attitude have worked against the success of the deal. Probably the business world is like this and may be we would change our self in future. Jo hua achha hi hua and we could save ourselves from major financial loss.
When ever we try to help the others beyond the set parameters, it is taken as weakness and never work favourably. We are always taken for granted. Probably god wants us to improve more so we can handle the big issues properly.
I learned a lot from this. One thing which I experienced was that to test a person, one shock is more than sufficient. The behaviour post the shock would reveal the true identity, character of a person,Nature, attitude during crisis. This can be a highly effective tool for any major deal/association.
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