In life we come across to various relationships. Certain relations are gifted alongwith our birth and many relationship we develop during the journey of life. Those gifted alongwith our birth are carried further by us. But there is no choice in such relationship. You have to accept these as it is without any amendment. In fact these relations are generated by default and every one has to accept. And the process of such relationship goes on either by adding new members in family or their marriages and all. We can call such relationship 'by Chance'.

Parelally we also generate relationships by own marriage, schoolling, professional activities, Neighbours and etc. etc. These relationships are made and strengthened knowingly every thing and not default. I would say these relationships are 'by choice' and not by chance.

We as a social human beings take both these kind of relationship further into formal and informal categories . In these categories both relationships are put together and accordingly we behave . Certain 'by chance' relations become too close and certain 'by choice' relations go too far during the course of time. This is mainly done as per convenience, acceptance and various other parameters. It is mainly dependent on mutual acceptance. I am of the view that once both kind of relations are categorised into formal and informal segments, the strength of a person starts reflecting into society.

Friends what are your views about relationship building. Wish to share with me?