Uffff. Worst has happened in Ahmedabad again on saturday. 17 blasts killed abt 50 people and injured more than 100 innocent people. I can not understand the logic behind such terror . I pray to almighty to give courage to the familyn of sufferers to face this unbearable loss.
These days it is happening anywhere and every where.

In life we come across to various relationships. Certain relations are gifted alongwith our birth and many relationship we develop during the journey of life. Those gifted alongwith our birth are carried further by us. But there is no choice in such relationship. You have to accept these as it is without any amendment. In fact these relations are generated by default and every one has to accept. And the process of such relationship goes on either by adding new members in family or their marriages and all. We can call such relationship 'by Chance'.

Parelally we also generate relationships by own marriage, schoolling, professional activities, Neighbours and etc. etc. These relationships are made and strengthened knowingly every thing and not default. I would say these relationships are 'by choice' and not by chance.

We as a social human beings take both these kind of relationship further into formal and informal categories . In these categories both relationships are put together and accordingly we behave . Certain 'by chance' relations become too close and certain 'by choice' relations go too far during the course of time. This is mainly done as per convenience, acceptance and various other parameters. It is mainly dependent on mutual acceptance. I am of the view that once both kind of relations are categorised into formal and informal segments, the strength of a person starts reflecting into society.

Friends what are your views about relationship building. Wish to share with me?

Had been to mumbai again on 24th July. The clouds have started showering in Mumbai. May be we in Gujarat are in que and I hope in couple of days we will have good shower.

I had been to Mumbai yesterday. The clouds had covered the whole route but still they were not showering rain. May be they waiting for the trust motion in parliament. Wish the monsoon does nt ditch us this year.

Energy of Past Memories

Friends , I wish to share with you one great feeling we come across quite often. This is about the energy hidden into past memories. Whenever , We think or talk about the past it always gives good and exciting feeling despite the fact that when it was present, we were not much excited. Does it mean that whatever be the situation in present (good or bad), it is going to make us laugh, excite in future. If this is so, then cheer up .
What you say?
regds
cpjain

"Jo likha hai vo hi hoga": Friends you must have heard this quote so many times. Whenever some thing happens, we say yeh hona tha kyunki yehi likha tha. What is this? Do any one knows kya likha hai ? NO one knows but we simply console ourselves with this quote. There are innumerable such quotes in our day to day life. Such quotes are totally confusing in my view. Like another quote that "Samay se pehle and Bhagya se jyaada nahi milta". Now this quote is also bit confusing. If we just struggle and dont achieve we console our selves that "samay se pehle......." But what do we mean by Samay and who knows about this. In my view such quotes restrict you from achieving. We quote simply because we hear but probably we need to analyse all such quotes.
I seek your views on this.
cpjain

Paisa Haath ka Mail hai.:
This is said widely in our indian philosophy. I cant understand this theory too, because if money is just the dirt of your hands, then why there is so much difference in status of we people. Only 3% are Rich , 50% Poor and 47% Middle class. Friends I need your comments , what you think is it really true? Or we simply ignoring the importance of money?

Regds

cpjain

"You can not convince any body on this earth except your self. In case there is a situation that proves that you have convinced some one, it is just an adjustment. "
Similarly you can not change except your self. So we should not try to change others rather we should change if required.

Khushi is like dulhan and Gam like a dulha. Because Gam or challenges do not come alone. It comes with Baraat. Where as Dulahan does nt go any where. So whenever you get a challenge, it comes in multiples from all sides where as khushi even alone is sufficent.
cpjain

Dear Friends

I wish to share another great quote from our forefathers:

"Slow and Steady Wins the Race" This quote is generally acompanied by a story that there was a tortoise and rabbit. In the race Tortoise won because the rabbit ran fast but stopped in between and fell asleep. By the time rabbit could woke up, tortoise had already reached the winning point.



I found some flaw in this story, because I never came accross to any rabbit sleeping. Rather tortoise looks like sleeping always. In my views this story is not correct. And hence the quote should be corrected. Cant it should be :

"Cautious and steady wins the race"
I believe we should not be slow to win the race , yes steady is very much required. And steady with some cautious approach van lead us to win the race.


regds



cpjain

Our forefathers say that "jitni chadar ho utne pao pasarna chahihe" (one should not go beyond his capacity)-

Friends what you say? Should we restrict our pao (dreams, career, planning etc.) or stretch the chadar (expand the capacity). Await your suggestions.

regds

cp

MAI CHHUPANA JANTA TO JAG MUJE SAADHU SAMAJHTA
SHATRU BAN GAYA HAI CHHAL-RAHIT VYAVHAAR MERA
---BY SHRI HARI VANSHRAI BACHHAN

This is what this legend personality wrote long back. Is nt it true for all human beings? Then what one should do either the vyavhaar should not be chhal rahit or you should know how to hide. Does not this world force you to hide so u look like a saint.