Dreams

Friends

We dream something and put efforts to make the dream come true. It becomes a life motto at certain level and then demands its price. I read somewhere that dream is a picture which our mind creates and it is instantly passed on to the universal library where certain mysterious powers find out the matching solution and gradually the dream comes true. It needs lot of persuasion, consistency and faith in the dream. Whatever we dream it is instantly mailed to the universe where the powers help us to achieve that dream come true. But in the process it demands clarification on following factors:

1. Are you sure to make the dream reality?

2. What is the time frame to make the dream come true?

3. What cost/sacrifice you can make to achieve the dream; and

4. How to compensate the difference between efforts we need to put and efforts we wish to put in. The desire of putting efforts is mostly lesser than the efforts needed to achieve the dream.

Once the plan is set in the mind we can achieve the dream. I believe the dreams can be reality if we give 100% whatever we have to achieve the dream. There is no short cut and also there is no smooth path to achieve the dreams. There is no free lunch in this world and if it is there, it is worthless to your dream. Faith in your dream has to be 100%, there is no word in the dictionary for less than 100% faith. Either it is 100% faith or no faith. Also no dream is a small or big or easy or hard. Dream is your personal property and you can not force any body else to help in achieving your dreams. You have to start alone with nobody at your side but once you move forward you will notice lot of people joining in your mission. You can not convince any body in this world and if you think you have convinced some one , please don't be misguided, he/she is just for some reasons or compulsions. So don't worry if you alone , only requirement is to start. Rest would be taken care by the god. Believe me all the dreams are achievable if you are ready to put in whatever is required to achieve this. I also noticed that cost of achieving a dream is always very high but friends, the failure in getting the dreams come true is highest. So don't worry, nothing is impossible in this world.

Be prepared for the cost of achieving dreams and give 100%, rest would be done by the God and universal library.

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Friends

We descend to this earth through a very unique process set by the god. He brings us here fully packed in a zip mode. Gradually we grow and all the organs of the body including mind achieves the desired size. We get a name too for recognition in this world in present and in future too. The destiny is also pre-decided by the god which not only unwraps us but also covers with social fabric with in which can move. Thus God through its channel delivers a person in fully automated well packed on this earth. Then the environment, the sanskars, the religion, society etc. further helps in building the personality which ultimately creates a unique identity.

It gives social relationship, source of living, education, marriage and further extension of family.

The day we descend physically on this earth is celebrated as Birthday. Technically birth takes place much before this date. Such occasion is most important event in every one's life and deserves to be celebrated with full joy. This is the day when all friends, relatives, associates, and every one connected some way or other wish for happy and healthy long life.

Today is birthday of my friend and sister Vinita and through this blog I wish to convey my best wishes on this auspicious day of her life. May God bless her long healthy and happy life ahead.

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Friends

When ever any social issue is referred to us for help or solution, we treat such issue as normal, important or urgent. The solution/support is also extended accordingly. Although the person who seeks our support may consider us most important but our reaction to such issue would always depend on mainly three factors that would decide our reaction or action. These factors are i) The depth of the relationship who wants the support; ii) The seriousness of the issue ; and iii) The impact of the issue on us.

These factors change regularly and hence the grading of the issue too. Some times we don't take seriously a very big issue if it is related with some one of less importance to us where as many times even a small issue related to our closest relative makes us sensitive. Also many times we try ourselves to protect at the cost of others and avoid helping just because it may hurt our interests. Sometimes we pretend to take the issue as most important but actions always speak louder than the words , irrespective to whatever clarifications we give or get. The importance or the priority we assign to any issue depends on the above factors. Big problems remain unsolved if it is not in priority and even small issues are taken care with extreme importance if the factors mentioned above are making it important.

This is the truth of the life & society but we should not blame any one if nothing is happening because it is yet to fall in the priority .

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Own Aura

Friends

We create an aura around us of a particular image. The aura is so strong that it is almost impossible to break. The aura defines the status of our living, the show to society, specific standard of living, the vacations, annual trips, functions, parties, clothing, jewellery, vehicles etc. etc. This aura is basically creation of our own and mostly inspired by the frustration hidden with in us. We live with in that aura, extend it beyond our means, whenever we notice some one approaching near to our aura we further stretch it and pretend to enjoy that level of aura. In most of the cases we also pose as if the aura is nothing a big deal and we deserve much high level of that aura. Inside the heart we know how difficult or impossible it is to maintain that level of aura.

The result of this fake aura is the frustration, depression, ill health, crimes, frauds and so on. Cant we create a flexible aura which can be suitably adjusted. Probably this would result in peace of mind, better health and mediocre social status.

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PRESSURE

Friends

Peer Pressure, Blood Pressure, performance pressure, Target pressure, client satisfaction pressure, etc. A man or woman is always surrounded by all these pressure. This pressure is mostly self created by us. We wish to perform the best amongst our peers and rather much better than the best, we make the targets and again follow that with sheer pressure of achieving them, kids are in pressure to get the first rank in school, city, state and country. Professionally we are always in pressure to give the best services to the clients with the expectation that he would never dream to go to our competitiors. Even we dont ask for the better fees or remind them to pay at least whatever genuinely we deserve due to fear of his flight ot competitors. This pressure ultimately strech our body and mental system and then we fell prey to diseases. Ultimately health gets affected and ofcourse the pressure does not soften. It either remains at the same level or increases further. I have never come to any incidence of pressure reducing for longer term. Pressure brings its relatives with him and you know who are they? Tension, Bad health, fights, irritation, negativity in attitude are the close relatives of Pressure. Initially pressure looks exciting but gradually it starts showing its true colors when all the relatives join it.

I fail to understand that if the pressure can not be reduced for long term why to borrow this. We repay this pressure not only with interest but with our health too and believe me this debt never reduces. This is a typical debt which never reduces but always get rescheduled and restructured. It is a horrible debt. My request is to avoid taking such debt. NEVER BORROW PRESSURE? IT IS SERIOUSLY HAZARDOUS DEBT AND WE WOULD NEVER BE ABLE TO REPAY IT.

Yes it can be repaid but by just re tuning the mindset.

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Satisfaction

Friends

Negative attitude (NA) generates arrogance and rigidity in behaviour where as positive attitude (PA) generates humbleness and flexibility. NA stopes any fruitful advise to reach us and PA brings that even if it is going some other way. NA deteriorates our health and wealth whereas PA builds both stronger day by day. Choice is ours. Politicians have tremendous patience and positive attitude. It is worth learning from them tht how they survive without in power for long years. Elections are approaching and in my view we all eleigible people should caste the vote to whomsoever we deem fit to rule.

During childhood, I used to hear a story. I would like to share with you:

"There were three friends one Charchya, second Marchya and third Me. They were hungry and hence went to various places for begging food. Charchya got good atta, marchya too got but me got only bran. They all cooked the food with the atta and bran. Charchya made good baati(rajasthani dish), marchya too made baati and me's baati got burnt. They enjoyed the food with whatever they got after cooking. Went to nearby pond to wash hands. Charchya got wash , marchya too but me slipped in the pond."

In this story "Me" was of highly positive attitude and despite lot many challenges he cooked food and had great satisfaction with whatever he could get. Can we be like "Me" so at least get pleasure in whatever we have after genuine efforts?

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Friends
Again a gap of eleven days in writing on the blog. We had gone to Mata Vaishneo Devi for darshan. It was a pleasure trip to this auspicious destination. We extended the trip further towards Dalhousie, Khajjiyar, Chamba, Kangda Devi Temple and other nearby areas. It was a great time to be away from the hustle bustle of the daily life. Finally in last leg of the trip of 8 days, I spent two days in jaipur, my home town. After longtime we were part of a social gathering to celebrate my parents' golden jubilee. Parents have successfully completed 50 years together. We all pray for their long and healthy life.
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